Chilli Talks Abortion Plus Relationships With Dallas Austin and Usher

Published by Dior Noir on Wednesday, May 12, 2010 at 3:00 pm.

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Celebrity dating reality shows can be extremely fluffy and superficial, but former TLC member Chilli got deep on the latest episode of her show What Chilli Wants and revealed she had an abortion at 20 -years-old.

“When I was in TLC, the first producer that we worked with was Dallas Austin,” she explained to a therapist on the show. “I was in the relationship, I got pregnant [for the] first time and I didn’t have the support. I was so scared and I did not know what to do and chose not to have it. One of the biggest mistakes….it messed me up. It broke my spirit.”

The act undoubtedly left Chili with some emotional scars: “I cried almost every day for almost 9 years,” she said. “And then I was caught up. I had to have a baby. I had to fix it and the only way I could fix it was with that person. I could only have this baby with him because the baby I didn’t have was with him.”

Chilli and Dallas eventually had a son, Tron (pictured above), in 1997 but discontinued their relationship. After years of dealing with the producer Chilli linked up with Usher. She explained why it didn’t work with him either:

“The next relationship was with Usher. Coming out of a relationship where I wasn’t myself, I didn’t want to lose myself again,” she said. “I was like ‘If it’s something I don’t want to do, I’m really not going to do it.’ My heart was like ‘I love him, I want to be with him’ but it wasn’t working. It was a relationship that I didn’t feel I could be in for the rest of my life.”

Watch the full clip below, what do you think about Chilli’s revelations?

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Mia P Said on

Some stuff should not be talked about all the time with the public, that is a private matter between her and him.



sherma Said on

I WAS SAD WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS OF THE ABORTION AND PAST RELATIONSHIPS. BUT NOW WE UNDERSTAND WHERE EVERYTHING COMES FROM. I JUST PRAY THAT GOD CAN TAKE AWAY THE PAIN AND THE BLAME THAT SHE PUTS ON HERSELF FOR THE OPERATION SHE HAD… AND ALSO THAT HE ALLOWS HER TO FIND LOVE SO SHE CAN BE HAPPY..



Ladee Said on

This is a very personal matter and should stay private. Now people tend to judge you more. Keep your personal life private and out of TV view.



amy Said on

IT’S MURDER NOT AN OPERATION AND IF SHE WANTS TO TELL PEOPLE SHE KILLED HER BABY LET HER Y’ALL DIDN’T WANT HER TO TALK ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT MADE Y’ALL THINK ABOUT HOW Y’ALL KILLED Y’ALL CHILDREN



CJ Said on

I think that she did well by sharing this. By her telling this and her having remorse for the act, shows she’s be ok. Most women I know that had an abortion, have remorse and if they don’t something is wrong. You can’t undo what is done. By being open about this situtation, it may prevent other young ladies from making that mistake. What was meant for bad, some good is coming out of it.

It is written, “Him who without sin, cast the first stone.”

So Chilli, thank you, you may be saving many babies lives.



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