Kim Speaks Out ‘Bout Diddy
September 7th, 2007
Kim Porter’s telling the world about her “dramatic” break-up with Diddy. Not sure about you, but I was quite embarrassed for this chica after that telling cover story in Essence (December 2006). Did she come off like the dumb girlfriend or what? Well, in a recent Essence interview she talks about packing up the twins and rolling out while Diddy was gone, and pretty much admits that she dumped him, in part, because of his triflin’, cheatin’ ways. She’s sure the rumor about a secret baby of his in Atlanta had something to do with it. (According to the NY Daily News, the Puffster paid the mama $1 million in keep-ya-mouth-shut money.) All that and Porter says she remains friends with the Bad Boy.
Most interesting remarks from Porter:
On her “dramatic” departure: “I wanted him to know I wasn’t breaking up with him for two weeks-or maybe leaving for two days. If I pack up everything — twins and all — it means I’m out! Puffy’s an action person, not a talk person. So I had to have an action. Telling him, “Babe, I’m leaving…” was not gonna do it. (Note to Kimmy: For a truly dramatic message, view the first half hour of “Waiting to Exhale.” Bernie said, “Get your s**t, and get out!” Hahahaha.) Moving on…
On if she’d marry Diddy: “I would say “No.” And not because I don’t want to get married, but because he’s not ready to get married. When I get married, I want to stay married. That’s a commitment I don’t think he’s ready for.”
On why she left: “I left because at this point in my life I want something different for myself. I invested 10 years, I have children, and I’ve always stood by him. But now it’s time for me and what I want to do for Kim.”
Are you glad Porter wised up (even if it took 10 years and three babies)? Or are you taking bets she’ll be back in Diddy’s bed before the spring? And at the end of the day, what lessons can we all learn from this?
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you know what diddy not trying to be mean to ya but you need to be single bro really do you just need diddy space thats all player l8te 1
So she had to sleep with him to get two kids before she found this out. All that time with J-Lo, she was on the side line and then hook back up with him….and now the light bulb has went off in her head.
According to mediatakeout.com Diddy and Kim are back together. They were together for Fashion Week NY and Diddy promises to propose soon (never).
I think it time for her to do her thing for them to be good parents
I think that Diddy is looking for a celebrity mate that he considers to be on his level. My questions is why cant he find one? He has been wanting that since J-Lo. I think it is best that Kim move on with her life.
I think that kim is a beautiful woman and her and her kids deserve to have a good man around,not somebody that aint ready to have anything.
I don’t think Kim will get back with diddy. If she knows what is good for the kids and her self she’ll keep it moving she can really do much better anyway.
I know Kim did the right thing. Guys never know what they got until it’s gone. Females can only put up with so much. Kim did what was best for her and her kids. Keep your head up Kim!!!
I dont’t like responding to this again, but I will. kim & puffy will always be an on again and off agian couple as long as kim keep taking him back.
CATCH 22: If it wasn’t for his drive she would have never dealt with him. Because of his drive women like her will always come a dime a dozen. She can TRUST that be will do what the hell he wants to do when he is good and damn ready. He is too self sufficient to TRUST anybody. Thus TRUST is not one of his strong points. MY HEAD HURTS, DAMN!!!
first of all, I dont know why yall acting like you dont know Diddy is on the “down low”. You know him and Mase had a thang going on. He cant commit to a woman. It aint his cup of tea.
medina: The boy is gay? Biexual? Now that’s a whole other blog. Confirm it and I’ll write it tomorrow.
Seriously, I think in a few years Diddy will have a VH1 reality show called “Diddy is 45 With Four Baby Mamas, Seven Kids…and Single.” He’s 38 this year. Grow up, geez. Nah, I take that back. Maybe marriage isn’t for him. If so, he should just be the ?~ that he is and stop faking like he’s committed.
Diddy is a big fake anyway…I can not stand him…meanwhile, I think Kim was in love and wanted to give dude a chance…however, I don’t think she was in love because of his “charming good looks” and “personality;” rather, it was all about money and having babies to keep him. It was only after that Essence interview that she realized how dumb she really looked; it was also a power play for her to take the kids and go…come on, she has twin girls now…that was always dumb diddy’s dream–to have a little girl with his diddy style.
With the lifestyle dude is living, it is only inevitable that he will crash and burn. He is a serious party animal, and studies show that dudes that party like rock stars have short life spans…just a thought.
Hello, i think she is making a smart move. But lets be honest, everything evolves around “Money”. I bet if she had her own income coming in and everything she would have left a long time ago. I mean i dont condone his actions, but unfortunately he is a typical “man” with money. If a women lets someone get a way with that the first year or days together, what makes you think he would stop now. I bet if Diddy didnt have the money, fame and fortune she wouldnt of had kids with him or anything.
umm diddy is gay read vidoe vixen (the whole thing) and you will come to the sme conclusion………………..diddys a fool he has NO talent himself he just knows how to munipulate others into making him money an giving them very little……….Kim is smart and dumb all at the same time dumb for staying around so long, smart for after relizing she needed to leave having three kids and being set for life!!!
I THINK THAT THIS WAS COMING SHE IS FINALLY SEEING THE LIGHT AFTER ALL THESE YEARS. I ALSO THINK I MIGHT HAVE TAKEN HER 10 YEARS BUT SHE MADE THE RIGHT DECISION. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE
Even though it took 10 years, I still want to applaude Miss Porter for finally getting the strenth to leave Diddys silly a$$. I personally can’t stand how cocky and arragant he is, and he isn’t even talented in my eyes. I hope that not only she stays away for good, but that she gets the max amount allowed for CHILD SUPPORT for ALL their children.Good luck, and good riddance!!!
kim u did the right thing i know that it was hard but u did it. sometimes u lovd a man so much that u will do anything for him. even lie 2 yourself thinking that hes goin 2 change bt wen we know thats hes not his loss just keep your head right for you an your kids gods with u. an diddy will fall on his face in the end dont be tripping u beautiful an strong u kan get any man that u want an tell usher hi and he better treat u an ur kids right bye girl love live life.
Kim, get on with your life and raise your children. Please don’t have anymore until you are married. Puffy is not going to commit anytime soon, and if he did, it would not be sincere.
He loves you and always will, but your not the ONE. He needs more of a challenge and someone on his level. You are a beautiful woman and your soulmate is out there. Just get over Puffy and everything will take its course.
Seek spiritual guidance to get you through this pain. Be strong!
ok, now you have all these kids for this man ten years later and he’s still no good. It’s just not in him. He’s one of those people that you just can’t satisfy. She may have all his kids, some of his money, but none of his love. I pray this woman finds happiness and love with another MAN….not diddy.
Well I heard on the black carpet that they were back together already. Does anyone remember Kim took diddy from diddys first baby’s mama. I can’t think of her name but she and Kim were friends and she was screwing diddy back then. What goes around comes around
diddy said on tyra show that he wasn’t ready to get married for the fear that all the sex was gonna stop and she was gonna let herself go.
I agree with yourweezyness, Diddy is gay. He keeps stringing these women along to maintain a playboy image. I don’t feel sorry for his babies’ mamas cause they gone get paid nicely for having his babies. In my opinion if a man who is living his life as a heterosexual has a difficult time treating women, (especially his babies’ mamas), with respect and maintaining a committed relationship–he’s in the closet; not really interested in women. It seems like if you really like, care for, and admire women–then there should be no problem loving and respecting them.
J.D.- Lets see here. A MAN who frequently deals with a plethera of WOMEN (gold diggers-KIM INCLUDED) is really attracted to men!?!?!?!?!?!? I don’t know if Diddy is switch hitting or not but I have to tell you, that is THEEEEEE most unique theory that I have ever been exposed to. INTERESTING!!! WOW!!!
This is sick! Kim Porter is a kick in the face to hard working black women everywhere. She famous for laying on her back. She allowed herself to be treated like a %@, and now wants us to support her. She is getting a million dollars a year from Diddy and who knows how much from AL B Sure. I am disappointed that Essence would even run such a story, they have lost my support.
Aisha
Kim,
Is not having a baby an important commitment? I guess I must be missing something?
Let me see if I get this right:
That DNA thing-like the thing that people do to exchange or come in contact with anothers DNA on an intimate level that could very well mean the end of a prosperous life as they know it, is not as important as someone keeping all of the money?
“Funny Thing About Money”
There are so many men who will risk their life with a good looking honey
But trust goes out the window when it comes to their money
They use the excuse that they worked hard so that their days could be sunny
I guess a man will sell his soul to hold on to his money
The love of money is known as the root of all evil
Sly dirty dogs will evil kill a people
Some use it to gain power and success
Look at their life closer and find it is a mess
Some commit crimes and end up in Sing-Sing
Others use it as a status as they show off their bling-bling
Some put young girls on the street to make that cash
Others argue in relationships that do not even last
Some will sell out their wives because of their greed
Not knowing a whorish woman will bring him down to his knees
There are so many men who will risk their life with a good looking honey
But trust goes out the window when it comes to their money
They use the excuse that they worked hard so that their days could be sunny
I guess a man will sell his soul to hold on to his money
If a man is waiting and trusting in the Lord
He will get the one God sends him because she he can afford
He does not have to worry about her taking him to the bank
He can give God the praise, honor and the thanks
A God given wife will not do her husband wrong
She will love him and honor him all the day long
Only a relationship blessed from God above
Can withstand the test of time and maintain committed love
Even though clouds maybe around, most days will be sunny
Togetherness is cherished because of commitment to God, instead of for the love money
There are so many men who will risk their life with a good looking honey
But trust goes out the window when it comes to their money
They use the excuse that they worked hard so that their days could be sunny
I guess a man will sell his soul to hold on to his money
Copyright©2006, by Arene
http://www.arenestheme.com/
The other side:
“Honey Wants the Money Avoid the Strife”
I do not understand how people can be so into things that it is funny
How someone seemingly stable gets corrupted and starts acting funny
Young ladies becoming an older cat’s sugar and spice honey
All this because of the love of that money
Some women will do anything for a dime
Sell their soul, get on the street or even do time
They go after a guy who has worked hard all his life
Knowing all the time they really do not want to be his wife
They will even have a child to increase their own wealth
All the time they only think of themselves
They go to the games pretending they are fans
Hoping to get lucky to catch that rich man
They hang out at clubs better known as the groupies
The sex is readily available as well as the disease
I do not understand how people can be so into things that it is funny
How someone seemingly stable gets corrupted and starts acting funny
Young ladies becoming an older cat’s sugar and spice honey
All this because of the love of that money
You see them at the church pretending to be saved
Get them alone and like a wild animal they need to be caged
They act polite like they are a good girl
Unless the man has wisdom from God, she will mess up his world
She will look at the car that he drives instead of his eyes
That woman who seems like an angel is a devil in disguise
Instead of preparing herself for God and His kingdom
She seeks to be taken care of by somebody’s son
Get yourself together girl and give God your life
A man who is totally dependent on God will never make you his wife
I do not understand how people can be so into things that it is funny
How someone seemingly stable gets corrupted and starts acting funny
Young ladies becoming an older cat’s sugar and spice honey
All this because of the love of that money
Copyright©2006, by Arene
http://www.Arenestheme.com
so what if he has another kid. it doesn’t matter. if i was her i would still be with him.
Down Down everyone. You all are taking things way to serious. After 26yrs my husband and i have split, i still love and respect him. Everyone has the right to be happy, and it was clear that he wasn’t, not with me anyway. He’s with someone that is 15yrs younger. Hopefully, she can give him what i was lacking. Lets face it, i feel that after 10yrs and three kids Diddy got a lot of love from Kim. Don’t hate b/c she wants to move on. You all should be well wishers. Wish them both well. Because when it gets right down to it both of them had to be doing something wrong. Noone is innocent when a relationship ends. Kim may have only been 10% percent wrong, but it does not make her innocent. I wish them both the best for the sake of thei children.
Good Luck Ms. Kim Porter, you gave him the kinda of love that he is probably not use to. You should be proud of yourself you gave it all that you could, you loved him unconditionally and non-judgementally, and that is what you call ultimate love, the greatest gift give by the Creator, whats really unfortunate is he doesn’t even understand what he has lost.
Peace~N~Love
LISTEN DIDDY’S TALENT MAY BE QUESTIONABLE…HIS MORALS MAY BE QUESTIONABLE…BUT HE IS GOOD AT MAKING THE WORLD TAKE NOTICE..HAVING SAID THAT I DON’T FEEL BAD FOR KIM,SHE’S GONNA B WELL TAKEN CARE OF (CUZ OF THEM BABIES) WHETHER THEY STAY TOGETHER OR NOT AND HEY WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND ASK J LO IF I WAS HER I’D B LAUGHING MY AZZ OFF
Lets not depict Mrs. Kim as the poor innocent victim here. She is a GOLD DIGGER IN DENIAL. She is just a CONSUMMATE MOTHER WHORE who expects to be treated like a lady. If diddy and Al B. weren’t rich and famous, she would have found some other promiscuous celebrities to manufacture several INSURANCE PLANS with. WHOOOOSAAAAHHHH!!!
Kim is probably doing the right thing she’s jus looking 4 love not jus to be with DIDDY, and you can tell by reading how she left him that it’s not a money thing some women R not in it 4 da money they jus wanna be held, loved, and respected .
Oh thank GOD!!!! I can finally have him. I dont give a damn who he is dating etc. Puffy would be like ” I cheated on you today” and Id be like ” he he he, stop boy you so crazy”! He is rich and semi cute, very confident. I want to marry him today and have his little puff babies!
i just want to say mabey there is more going on with this story than whats being told bc 10yrs is a long time to spend with someone and just through even if you went through alot.. she been knew he was cheating so why is that the reason she left they have already been through this same senario i honestly thinks she needs to make up her mind on if she wants to stay and deal with it or just through away 10 years..
Kim did sound like a fool in the Essence interview when she tried to belittle J-Lo. I think it’s just a matter of time before Kim is back with Diddy. I hope though that she will wise up.
I admire & respect Diddy’s business sense however I think he is a poor example of a man. Money doesn’t make you a man. A real man has a family through marriage and stays with his family so that he can show his sons and young men everywhere that a home needs a loyal husband/father/provider. It’s so unfortunate that so many young black men and women look up to Diddy and he is showing them that it is okay to make babies with different women and that he is not giving his children the opportunity to live in a home where they have both their mother & father and they where their parents are husband and wife. In my opinion, Diddy is part of the problem not the solution of the Black Race.
AMEN (nt). At the end of the day money isn’t the barometer for a successful life. Quality of FAMILY life is what makes a well rounded and well adjusted individual. Hopefully those children will have a srong male figure in their lives.
i have read some interesting tidbits here, maybe she felt that once those twins were born he would marry her, perhaps it wasn’t just the cheating but the fact that he is pretty blatant with it, he is arrogant. However, when he left her for jlo she should have known. It was always evident to me that he is still crazy about jlo, if only because she left him and did not look back. I wish her well, i do believe that she truely loved him and if it is true that she took him from his first baby’s mother, then you reap what you sow. However, perhaps the essence article (prior) did start her the thinking….
diddy could do what ever he feels like doin’ and if the girl took him from his first baby mama then she deserves whatever she gets.
Well thats what happens when you are a home recker. I think she just has a weakness over this man. I think she just having the babies just so she stay apart of his life. I think she likes it. Some woman like that. As as far as mariage come on would you marry him? You can take him seriously.
Kim Porter needs Jesus. I blame her for being inmature and allowing a man to do whatever he wanted for years, then out of no where expect a commitment. When you start a relationship, you lay the ground rules. And once he left her for a woman on his level, that should have told her something. She doesn’t seem to be intelligent and everyone who writes any article on her dictates her moves. She don’t know those people personally. and for the most-he may have loved her in the early years before he became who he his. But Diddy loves himself. No matter who he gets with it will always be about Diddy. After Jennifer, Kim was just another pretty face who still loved him. She got him back and again she couldn’t make him marry her, so why have more kids? You can’t live in a world you don’t belong in. She should have learned to love Kim a long time ago. A man will do what the woman he’s with lets him. IT’S HER FAULT.
I’m just bothered.These two gets on my last nerve.Just let It go you have been with him for how many years.Take your kids and go,I ain’t mad at you for collecting that child support and you still with dude.My thoughts if ya’ll been together for ten and ya man ain’t faithful and ya’ll not married revaluate the sitution.
KIM PORTER BASICALLY GIVES BLACK WOMEN A BAD NAME. WHY WOULD YOU STICK WITH A MAN WHO IS ALWAYS GONNA CHEAT ON YOU. IS SHE TRYING TO SAY SHE CAN’T DO BETTER?
I think that a relationship is personal. And if she really did love him she wounldn’t have said anything about him in the media. She should of just left and collected her child support knowing that she was only there them 10 years for the money!!!How you doing!!
Yeah She Was With him for the money as well as every other non-celeb women that are lucky enough to have a relationship let alone a baby(s) with a rich man… she
s stupid for leaving him because you know she gone be back to get more of his money because child support even when its from a rich man isent enough for a golddigger..c’mon now lets get real.. and anyways diddy has always beena amn who got around even b4 he got rich so what was the hold-up? Oh That Right I Forgot….THE MONEY a real women knows when it’s time to go and if Kim was a real women she would have been go the 1st or 2nd yr but Diddy was still very rich so she delt with it ….but soon as she had 3 of his kids a realized thats about 3 million a year in child support she said WTF i can leave him and still get PAID
and Jovanni that how women are they stay with a man even though their treated like crap…unfortunately that will never change.. and they will continue blaming a man for their own problems , yeah i know sometimes men can be wrong but women really need to look in a morror sometimes not just to see how they look but to see what really wrong with them.. this blame all our problems on a man sh*t is getting old…
personally i think kim just really loves puff and as a women she was just trying to make her relationship work and hang in there, we all do thing’s men and women that are wrong and no one can understand, i don’t think it’s about the money cause she was modeling and made her own money, besides even if she did get support after leaving him, she could survive off of it cause she would get paid for those kid’s, im not one to judge or point the finger, chances are she knew what she was getting into long before the kid’s were born, he is who he is, hate it or love it and lot’s of women would like to be in her shoe’s, there’s options for everybody, the choice is her’s and at the end of the day, her happiness and his is what matter’s
Don’t get too excited ya’ll, she’ll be back.
you all ready Know she will be back she is nothing without him. She dum for leaving all because he got another baby.
Truly I do not fell sorry for Kim, She was stupidly in love with a man who had no love for her. The media treated her as a wife? Which amazed me when one magaizine in particular placed her on the front cover as a wife to an Hip Hop Mogul?? She was just his main B****. Kim will never wise up… this is just a theatrical ploy to set Diddy straight! It will never work. It never does!
agree with the person above, she was just his MAIN B!TCH
well i feel that we all live and learn from what we do and have been thru unfortuntely i feel both diddy and kim r to blame no one really knows the problems and mistakes tht occured between the two besides listening to the media and reading tabloids but im sure they both r content with the decision they made wether it be for the good or bad i wish diddy the best of luck as well as kim!!!!!!
first off everybody know that diddy luvs the ladies and s**t who wouldnt throw the draws at diddy. he is fine, successful, and a very intelligent black man. he is a playa and he not ready to be settled down. point blank and kim should have known what he was about after she took him back after he had highly publisized affair with j-lo. s**t leave the man alone as long as he taken care of all the babies he making, he good…
Diddy needs to settle down and raise help raise his children. Stop all this play stuff, he has enough to last a lifetime-get to the family thang now!
Bravo Willie- you summed that up quite nicely. I won’t be surprise to see her back. Diddy can move on with no problem, she needs to forget about him, get it together and and put him on the back burner. It’s about damn time the girl moved on.
I think she gon be right back in his arms when it’s all said and done. She gon’ miss the glitz and glam(cuz dats y I think she stayed in the first place)and she gon be bac and Diddy knows this. He just took this as a publicity stunt to get Through the Pain out. He so lucky he’s who he is.
I’m not sure, if she woke the hell up,yet. Mr.P.Diddy,Puff Daddy,or Diddy Combs or whatever the heck he calls himself is full of crap. Why has it taken(2)kids and him publically dumping you, as well as cheating on you, to see that he ain’t thinking about marrying you? Men like him are arrogant and think they can do women any way they please.When J.LO dumped his unattractive ass, he looked like he lost his best friend he, even had the nerve to record a single, showing how sprung and strung out over J.LO he truly was. He has never done that over you. Please stop letting that jerk play you like a sucka and cut your loses and move on !P.S. Your 1st baby daddy Al.B Sure, looks 100x’s better than Diddy’s fony wack ass anyway!
she did the best thing. if you’ve been seeing each other for that long and no commitment then either imma leave or he’s gone leave, cause to me that means that either one of you are serious about nothing but sex and what he or she can do for you. its sort of like security for the both of them. and she can have someone better than him anyways because he was cocky and bisexual and cock-eyed anyways
No matter what Kim and Diddy do or say they will always be in each others life because of they have children together, and that is what should always come first.
*****Diddy you know what she want you for. She want you for that money that’s all but neways back to you and making the band 4 man that show so popular on MTV and i want to give a shout out to Brian Andrews, Quanwell (my baby),Willie, Big Mike(my man), and other man i forgot yo name (sorry but i love you too) and diddy i want to say that you pick a good group but all of them should of been in that group cuz all of them was hot!!!!!!!!!! bUt much love to you diddy and sorry if i made yo wife mad but u know it’s that truth. Cute twins though!!!!******
she look older than you anyways and she look like a man you need to be with me my numba is 901-248-9901 call me baby cause i’m wanting and waiting on you
Dear Kim,please remember this, before you have one more, out of wedlock child,”NO MAN WILL BUY THE COW, WHEN HE CAN GET ALL OF IT’S MILK, INCLUDING ALL OF THE BABIES FOR FREE”! Girl be smart and continue taking that, sorry negro’s child support checks and wait on a better, more respectable man, who will love and marry you, before trying to knock you up, every chance that he gets !
I am so sick of Diddy along with other men just being sperm donators. Just making babies with different women and not planning to marry them. That is so tacky. Kim needs to leave Diddy alone, but I am sure she will be back for more. This chick has to have a big case of low self-esteem to keep staying with him on and off.
When a women decides she will be the other women and then expects different results after becoming the main event or expecting the man to all of sudden be a faithful guy…. we all know the outcome and if not ask Ms Porter. Her biggest fear now is that eventually Diddy will be ready and will make a great husband and she couldn’t stand watching another woman gain the benefits of her hard work, that’s why women stay or come back to these situations. Sad for her all the way around
Kim jus needs to stop giving interviews and never right a damn book. She makes real women look ridiculous and the reason why some men thing all women are fools. She’s the nut who stayed with Diddy knowing everything he does, so there’s no need to complain about it now. but then again we kno how she thinks… Cash Rules Everything Around Me! Get the money $$ bills Yall!
It’s about time ole girl wised up, Didddy is a male whore and he will continue to be one, we women have got to draw the line somewhere, so what he’s a star he’s human, men cheat all the time, it’s no surprise, he was even tryin to get with Super Head so she says so it’s better she got her sh*t and got the fu*k out. Go girl, get that paper, best way to show his triflin ass!
Run Kim Run!!!!!!!!!! U deserve better!!
Diddy was NEVER going to marry her. Okay, if she waits in the wings again, let’s say 10 more years, they’ll hook back up and then she’ll pop out another check. In the meantime, he’ll have little cookies on the side, a couple of crumbs with those cookies, and she’ll be the dumb bunny waiting…waiting…waiting… for him to NOT MARRY HER AGAIN! I hope she’s move on this time for good!
Kim, sweetheart,darling it’s time to wake-up and stay awake. Diddy is simply being Diddy. Are you expecting him to change? Well don’t!
BABYDIRL!!!leave that cat where he’s at there are to many deseases going around and if he is making babies with other people it’s obviouse he’s not wearing protection.
I really like Kim, and commend her for standing up for herself and having pride. I hope it works out with them though !
I believe Kim will go back. You know what a couple weeks ago I saw Kim in several of Al B. Sures videos, but I have never ever seen her in any of Diddys videos. When Tyra interviewed Diddy when Kim was pregnant with the twins he admitted he was truly in love with J.LO. However, when she asked him about Kim he said he had love for her. I honestly believe he would’ve married J.LO faster than Kim. I think J.LO was more of challenge. Kim wake up girlie.
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