Real Love vs. Hell Date…

Looking for Love, on a Hell Date…

Are you kidding me? In these modern times, it hard to find a couple whose foundation is love. Love is definitely the basis of intimacy, but the men and women of this generation seem more fascinated by credit scores, shiny rides, and graduating from their starter homes (What in the hell-date, is a starter home?), than in finding someone to share their lives with. Surprisingly, some young people might argue that even the word love, and all that it means is outdated.

Our parents’ generation danced and reveled in true love. Those were the days when people actually believed in love. People inhaled love, they dreamed about it, they hoped for it, and to live with love, was absolutely phenomenal.

While I am still a believer in the old fashioned kind of love, I’m one to argue, that the three greatest words are not ‘I love You,’ but ‘As You Wish.’ Those words require action, toward your mate… Try it today, when your mate makes a request, say ‘As You Wish Dear.’ Watch the appreciation.

Even though love starts with you, and is expressed from the inside out, there are certain external factors that can affect intimacy. Are you an optimist? Do you encourage or discourage happiness? Is reciprocity a common practice, of yours? What’s your favorite love song? What passion and depth does it hold? Your favorite song says a lot about how you view love. Are you a ‘Knocking the Boots’, or ‘Between the Sheets’ type of mate, or does your heart call for ‘I Will Always Love You,’ ‘Summer Rain,’ or ‘Ribbon in the Sky?’ Whatever your flavor, understand that love is patient, honest, and understanding. Emphasis on the word HONEST!

I challenge you to obtain and maintain love and intimacy… But remember, love alone is never enough, so make sure you and your mate are compatible.

Do you know love? If so, explain what love is to you in under, 25 words… It must be in sentence form.

Dr. Tiy-E
www.drtiye.com

70 Comments so far

  1. Erica on October 12th, 2007

    First of all I must say I love this article.
    a lot of people does not understand what love really is. Love is patience, kindness, and absolutly honesty. Please my people, just because you love someone doesn’t mean you have to let them walk over you. Please don’t be fools for anyone, love yourselfs first, never put no-one before the LORD keep him first and he will direct your paths. Love is a wonderful thing i hope everyone finds it:)

  2. MANMAN on October 13th, 2007

    I WATCH HELL DATE EVERYDAY AT 730 I JUST WANTED TO SHOUT DONNELL FLEMIND OUT ON MONDAY

  3. Piquarius on October 14th, 2007

    The classic ways of love can be achieved once we commuicate to one another. If somehow it doesn’t work out, please, do not build a wall around your heart and punish the next for the prior pain. If you believe in true love, it will happen but we need to start respecting,communicating with an open mind and heart.

  4. sienna on October 19th, 2007

    i just started waching the show a lot and some how i kind of got hooked to it know i can,t stop watching it a lot know whenever i come home i put it on so i can watch it some more my favorit part is when the davale come,s out that and i want to be able to tray it out myself how can i do it to

  5. don-don on October 22nd, 2007

    I luv heel date because the hell daters r so funny. I luv luv donnivin, micheal-n- pierre. Them fellasiz so sexy. then I like farella, kiya-n- mona.

  6. Christine on October 22nd, 2007

    I love hell date because it’s really crazy

  7. Jay on October 24th, 2007

    It the devil midget male or female?

  8. Dr. Tiy-E on October 25th, 2007

    There are two midgets, male and female…

  9. censear2006 on October 26th, 2007

    Well I think I found love, with that contestant Rykia, I want BET to hook me up with her. She was the one chick that was with the guy who was new to dating.

  10. edenne on October 29th, 2007

    I just want to say where in the world do you guys find your contestants. I swear you guys know where to find the nicest people in the whole world. Your contestants just know how to keep their cool even when they are pissed off. Yo, I hope I someday find a that’s like one of those guys.

  11. Audrea Perez on November 22nd, 2007

    i need a man asap

  12. BEXIE on November 25th, 2007

    I WOULD LOVE TO MEET ONE OF THE GUYS THAT WAS ON THE SHOW, AND NO IM NOT A HELL DATER.I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU ARE ACTUALLY MEETING THREE PEOPLE,THE PERSON THEY WANT YOU TO THINK THEY ARE, THE PERSON THAT YOU THINK THEY ARE,BUT YOU ALWAYS END UP WITH THE PERSON THEY REALLY ARE…… I JUST WANT TO MEET SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT MIND BEING THEMSELVES.

  13. Jonathan Adkins on December 3rd, 2007

    Kiya is phine as hell. She couldn’t become a hell date no matter how you look at it. Should could do what ever she wanted to piss me off. I would look at her and just forget all about it.

  14. Shalon on December 7th, 2007

    Wow! I just saw the nicest looking man on Hell Date. Keith.. nice tall and dark guy who went on the date with Kiya. I’d love to see him myself! BET need to have a meet the Hell Dater’s website. LOL

  15. ANDREA on December 12th, 2007

    I LOVE THIS SHOW. IM ADDICTED AND I LOVE THE THEME SONG TOO. I SING IT TO MY 4 MONTH OLD BABY GIRL AND SHE JUST CRACKS UP. I THINK KIYA AND FARELL ARE THE BEST ACTORS ON IT.

  16. Songz on December 27th, 2007

    what is the name of the theme song and who is it sung by on the show “hell date”?

  17. jeanne021556 on December 29th, 2007

    I LOVE Hell Date. I never heard about it until watching I Love New York 2. Your show is hysterical. Now that I’ve seen it, I’m going to watch your show every time it’s on the air.

    GREAT SHOW

  18. Mija Joli on January 6th, 2008

    Dr. Tiy-E! You are a genius! I don’t know where your fabolous mind comes up with the ideas, or where you even thought up this very unique, very rare, pleasure that I get to watch on that thing in the corner, um, the television?! (lol) I am also wondering how you pick the cast for your show?? Everyone on the show is great!! Although, I am saying that myself and my very good friend could pull off some hell-dating for your a$* My stomach feels like i did about 1000 crunches every time I watch Hell Date! I absolutely love it! Good job, guys! And for real, does anybody know how 2 try out for the show?? :-)

  19. sughaaa on January 8th, 2008

    wat was buddha doing on hell date

  20. shoniece DA*SUPERSTAR on January 12th, 2008

    HELL DATE IS A NICE SHOW BUT WILL BE BETTER IF I SHONIECE DA*SUPERSTAR WAS ON IT.I KEEP TELLING YALL THAT….. PLEASE HIT ME UP @ I WOULD GIVE YALL MY # BUT THATS LATER WHEN YALL WRITE A TRUE STAR I DONT WANT TO WASTE THIS TALENT

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  21. DA MEXICAN on January 31st, 2008

    HELL DATE I HATE IT EVRYBODY AT DA CRIB CHANGE DA CHANEL OR TURN OF DA TV SO PLEASE TAKE DIS SHOW OFF WE NEED MORE STUFF BOUT CARS.

  22. Loqueisha on February 1st, 2008

    I’m on a hell date right now!

  23. Loqueisha on February 1st, 2008

    My posts never show up!

  24. Yashica on February 1st, 2008

    i love hell date and i watch all the time.

  25. Rebecca on February 2nd, 2008

    Hell Date is definitely funny, but the episode that had Farrell as “Bipolar Girl” made me sad to see another example of negative sterotypes about people with bipolar disorder. Ferrell is a great actress, but her interpretation of what a bipolar person would behave like just perpetuated the myth that people with psychiatric health issues are out of control.

    Bipolar disorder is just a physical health issue. You’ve got diabetes, you get diagnosed, check your blood sugar daily, take your medicine and see your doctor regularly. Same deal with bipolar: you track your moods, take your medicine and see your doctor regularly. With both illnesses you live a happy normal life.

    Sometimes TV, movies and magazines are the only places people get their information and it would be great if Hell Date could keep things funny without perpetuating prejudice that’s already out there. Here’s a great resource with accurate info: http://www.dbsalliance.org

  26. Guenavere on February 6th, 2008

    YO MAN, I loves me some HELL DATE! Keep them new episodes coming!!

  27. Jamien on February 13th, 2008

    Hell Date is without a doubt the best show on BET, and the theme song is-da-buisness.

  28. Londa on February 14th, 2008

    I love Hell Date, I think its the best show on T.V.!

  29. RACHARD BAKER on February 18th, 2008

    I SHOULD BE ON HELL DATE I LOOK GOOD AND I CAN ACT.SO GET AT #219-884-9803 YEA I LIVE IN GARY IN. SO WHAT LOL

  30. Chyenne on February 20th, 2008

    Love sinks but the show hell date is
    A W E S O M E. iM IN LOVE NOW AND MAY I SAY ITS COMPLICATED BUT I LOVE BEING LOVED BACK ITS THE GREATEST FEELING EVER …you will find the right person and when you do.. let it out dont try to hide it….

  31. Chyenne on February 20th, 2008

    Love rocks me & him forever..

  32. Chyenne on February 20th, 2008

    im a teen in love?

  33. Dap on March 3rd, 2008

    I am loving the heck out of the show.. SIMPLY HiLaRious!! I would love to be a part of the show! Can you send me some information?? Thanks Alot :)

  34. fewchamrsmorrison on April 27th, 2008

    I love the show but when are the new episodes coming out?

  35. fewchamrsmorrison on April 27th, 2008

    I love Shawn K. Morrison..never a hell date with this man…congrats to all the true lovers out there…

  36. Hellen Carmine Thompson on June 21st, 2008

    I watch every single episode off Hell Date, and i love it. I would like to be on Hell Date. I’ll be a perfect dater. hellen_carmine@yahoo.com 310-351-4114.

  37. shana on August 16th, 2008

    who is the artsit of the theme song for hell date??

  38. Hannah on December 3rd, 2008

    I love watching hell Date I wish it still came on tv

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