I think that this show should be cancelled. It is a disgrace to the black community. The way that Neffe and her mom act is crazy. The mom and the sisters are a bunch of free loaders and need to get jobs. They are like leeches sucking Keisha dry. No wonder white people and other races do not take black people seriously. It is because of the Neffe and the Frankies of the world. Neffe is like the stereotypical black female having multiple kids, and not having a job to support them. Answer me this how can a person without a job consider herself a homeowner. It does not make since. Also Frankie needs to stop playing victim on the show. The way she abandoned her children was horrible, they have every right to be angery at this woman. Bottom line. Neffe get a job so you can be a role model to your children and stop being a leech. Frankie get over yourself. Tell your children that you are sorry for the past and stop trying to be the victim. Peace.

I want to thank-Keisha & her familly for allowing the world to watch the difficulty that families face as they are attempting to unravel decades of chaos. Neffe kudos on your book project–plan to support you!

Frankie, my mother is a recovering addict (14 years & going strong)–I would like to see you utilize Narcotics Anonymous, therapy, and your spirituality to sustain your recovery process. I know that the pain of dealing with your pass is difficult but keep the faith and stay the course. It took me 10 years to finally tell my mom that I forgave her for the abandoment, and shame that her addiction caused in my life. My sister through the grace of God is now working out her issues with our mom.

Keisha-I am the self-proclaimed rock of my family, and I want to reiterate the message that the pastor gave you-Let Go, and Let God! You living life and praying for your family is the best that you can do. “Trust in the lord with all your heart, lead not to your own understanding, but acknowledge him in all you do, and he shall direct your path.” Proverbs 3:5-6

Carlita

Neffe, stop screaming and arguing in front of your children, that’s adult stuff. It scars them, they are learning from you how to get through life. Give them the peace and love they deserve. Your mother is a NIGHTMARE! She is still playing the victim, still that druggie crap. She is incredibly toxic to your whole family. She still is defendind herself instead of spend the time admitting her wrong doing and truely listing to your terrible pain. We hear it Neffie, it’s heartbreaking. You need to let go of her. She will never give you what you need, she is not capable of it. Pushing you together is just fuel for the fire. Every time your family gets together she turns it into a disaster, look at all the attention she’s getting. It’s time you have your life… far away from her. Happiness is the greatest revenge/reward. Grieve about the loss and go on. Without her, your family seems to be pretty harmonious.
Keyisha, please let it go. You are an amazing woman, but there are just some things that we don’t have the power to fix. You gave it one hell of a try.
Put your mother on an allowance, a plane (far away), give her a place to live and be on your way. Then your family will truely be able to heal. Stop being shackled to the past. Some things even God can’t fix…

I love Keyshia Cole, I look forward to watching her show every week,I comend her struggle and her hustle, alot of people would have given up. I am however tired of Frankie and Neffe.I have a big problem with Frankie,it seems like she should be grateful to just be a part of Keyshia’s life, after all that she put her and the rest of her kids through.All Keyshia wants is for Frankie and Mrs.Cole to get along,and I think Frankie should humble herself and do that for Keyshia. As for Neffe, she has come a long way and I’m very happy for her, I’m looking forward to buying her book. I just wish she wouldn’t yell all the time, that doesn’t make for good television,because most of the time she’s yelling at her mother, and we definitely don’t want to teach girls to yell at their mothers.

Hey Keyshia, I really love ur show i can watch it all day long. I thank u for outtin ur business out there like dat it shows me dat all famous people life is just like unfamous people dat very body life is not perfect. Im lookin forward 4 ur new movie and ur sister new book

I love watching your show Keyshia because you keep it real and show us the real going on in your lives. You don’t sugarcoat anything. You just keep it real all of you do that is why I enjoy watching. Keep doing what you do. You are truly a beaitiful person and it shows.

KEYSHIA YOUR PEOPLE IS OFF THE CHAIN JUST LIKE MINE, AND WHAT YOUR PASTOR TOLD YOU IS SO TRUE, YOU CAN’T ALLOW THAT CHAOS TO CONSUME YOUR LIFE, GOD HAS BLESS YOU AND YOU HAVE BLESS YOUR FAM BUT ITS TIME THEY APPRECIATE IT ENOUGH TO STOP FUSSING AND FIGHTING, ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF THE KIDS.

i feel like anybodi with any negative comments have never lived this life…but i have…i been in situations where i seen my mother messed up on drugs….i been in situations where i seen things when i shouldnt have….i gave my mother clothes off my back and food out my freezer so she wouldnt have to sell her body for drugs…and im telling you that this is real….or as real as it gets…im a big fan of keyshia cole…and her whole family….i used to think i was the onli one who was in a messed up situation and that i needed to hide my situation to my friends….but with all this said…if you dont like this show then close your damn eyes….because this family is my only source of hope right now

Someone said this is “something God can’t even fix” Well I assure you God can fix anything. Sometimes he uses situations and issues for people to grow. Sometimes God Simply says “NO” in life when we think he should say “YES”. I enjoy the show a lot. I think these women in some sense are damaged goods for the world to see in a positive manner. Frankie, I really think you would be good at traveling and speaking with drug addict women and young teenage girls about your life, being advocate, and presenting your best life yet. This would help you grow more also and help you learn to forgive yourself. I see in the shows you still have not learnt to do that for YOU. Neffie, you still seem very angry, and that’s understandable. You may have a problem with me saying this but think about how you dress in front of your children, when you went to go talk to your son’s dad, look how you were dressed. You want to be respected show respect for not only yourself but for your children. You do not have to show everything you have to be beautiful you are that already. And another thing, why would you go there (concerning the baby father)knowing full well what to expect clearily you must understand your hand in this also, you know what type of man he was, and what he is, and somethings do not change and still form full circle. Keshia Cole, Girl you are a shining star, I think your talented and sweet. Keep up the good work and continue to seek God’s hand in all you do and your world of dreams and hopes will manifest themselves.

I commend Keyshia Cole for all the wonderful things that she does for her family, and that in spite of themselves continues to strive to make their lives better. What her pastor said is very true, Neffe and Frankie need to continue the healing process, and what Neffe needs to understand is that as part of her recovery, Frankie only now has the maturity of the 20 year old that she was when she became a drug addict. Many therapist, drug addicts themselves will tell you, after such a long addiction, only now is she playing catch up to the reality of facing life sober. In addition, Frankie needs to understand, regardless of how she feels she should be respected just because she is their mother. She has never truly been a mother and other’s have had to do her job. To the commentator that is “disgraced” over this show, get over it. These are issues that effect black and Latino families daily. If Keyshia had not decided to do this, you can bet the tabloids would have found a way to exploit it. I hope that her family truly tries to better their lives for the sake of their future generations.

Keshia is cool Her family blessings and problems are no different from any one elses. Except she chose to deal wit and not act brand new. Love the show and hope we are able to see a blessing from it.