I could understand why her feelinqss was hurt because she wonts help for her mom for the better and she really thought that here mother was all for it but here mom played her and her brother played her she’s a hella good lil sister and a Mother and they just did her scandalous and i dont even think that they care that they did that…..p.s. iLove Toya because she is a strong black independent Women who can hold her own down

When I saw this show I was also in tears with Toya, not because she was crying but I can really relate to the feelings that she has about wanting to help her mother have a sober life. My mother has the same issues as Toya’s mother and boy do I know the hurt of broken promises. Toya I just wanted to let you know that you are not the only one that is and has expereinced this disappointment, but I want you to remember that because you have shared your life and story, hearts will be healed and souls will be saved. God allows us to experience things openly that does not always feel good but at the same time it will help someone else break free. At the time in the situation we may not understand but when the fullness of God shows up what a joy. God Bless you, your family and your friends.

Toya I can certainly understand your hurt and pain, but you have to let them go and they have to find their own way. You stepped up to the plate and tried to help them, but they have to want to help themselves. Do not stress yourself out about them leaving and whatever they are doing down in New Orleans.

You focus on you, your daughter and Rudy, they need you more now than ever. You have to be strong and keep a clear head about all that may be going on around you.

Put your trust in Jesus and he will see you through your most difficult and paiful times. He will comfort you and give you a peace that surpasses all understanding. God is a God that will never leave nor forsake us. So keep your head up and stay positive. You will reap the benefits for all that you have done for your family. Just hang in there and be strong.

May the sweet communion of God rest, rule and abide with you and all that you put your hands to do. May the favor of God be with you all ways. God bless you and your family. Love you in Jesus name.

toya i feel you sometimes i just wont to cry to a lot off people hurt my feeling my family loves watching tiny and toya just to watch you alway trust in god pray he will answer your prayers always he answe mine

It’s going to be okay Toya don’t worry.Pray about and God will answer your prayers and I’ll pray for you.Look on the bright you still got Regina and Rudy there with you.
-ily <3
-Shaunya

Toya, I can really like put my self in your shoes with the whole family thing, but the through all the frustration the only thing I could really do was , pray and hope that God would make a way. Stay strong!

I know just how u feel.My mother is the same way but different ,your momma dont live in the same state.My momma do, thats what makes it easy.That way i can go n spend time with her when i get ready.Then she can come n see me when she get ready.No matter what we might think ,our parents was doing what they want to do before we was born and they r going to do what they want now.My mom have been to jail 4 times and each time it was for six months at a time.Then she went to rehab for a year n a half.Last of all she went to prison n did three years.Now she do her thing in a respectable way that not everyone no’s what she do.I see it like this if i cant change her whats the use of keep trying,iv’e gave it to God n best believe he will handle it.[Keep your head up]

It’s sad how FAMILY will be the first to mess over you first. God will bless you Toya, for trying to show your family that there is another side to life. Please understand that your peeps are grown
as hell. You did what you can do for them. Now its time for them to get to that other side of life by themselves. They gotta wanna help themselves out first. Toya, you keep doing what you doing and GOD will continue to provide you the blessings. And oh, your family they will be back. Trust me! Love U…

Hello, my name is Ms.Smith and i am 48 years old christain woman, soon to be 49, i am a mother of 2 grown children and 3 grandchildren. I am a wonderful person, i love life, i enjoy playing with kids, going to church, being silly. I am sane, I am not crazy. I answer to a higher calling in my life. I want you to know this because I am serious about what i am putting out here. I pray you will receive. I love your show, this has been the most positive show i have seen on reality type shows since they started putting them on TV. You 2 ladies carry yourselves very professional, and you keep the show interesting and funny with NO drama, i am so tired of all that mess just to make ratings or money to blacks still exploited like thats all we do is fuss and fight and want money. You all show most of real life issues, Tiny, your father, real issue, and your mom is hanging in there like a great woman of God, most women and young ladies today are married or getting married and dont know what it is to even be a mother or wife, they will leave or cheat on the spouse if he or she cannot perform the same anymore. Your father and mother exemplify the attributes of a true husband and wife, through the good and the bad, til death do us part (thanks Mom and Dad, and Tiny). Toya, you are more than a conqueror, through much pain you will gain power to become all that is meant for you to be. There is a mother somewhere in a lot of households that have addictive behaviors and just not willing or ready to give it all up, yes it hurt, but you have to continue your life. What you show us on national tv is that no matter what i will do what i can to help my family members, and i am not ashamed of who and what they do, but you also have to draw a line so that you and your daughter can live. Your daughter has saw you try to help, she will always remember and love you for that because that is her grandma. Keep keeping your head up. I work with this population everyday and very much knowledgable of the house you took her to. She can get better, but it is her choice. You are being a wonderful and caring daughter, you remind me of my own, and i know if it were happening to me they would be there for me. So continue to be there for her but dont be “it” for her. I mean her “it” is not your mind, her “it” is not your decision, her “it” is not your happiness it adds to your happiness, her “it” is not your love to her but your love for her, understand this. So in the mean time, if you want i would like for us to meet and allow me to be like a 2nd mother to you to keep you encouraged, not step in and become your mother, but be as a mother to you, like back in the old days, see thats the kind of person i am i still pop kids that are not mind, people say you cant say anything or they will kill you, but i dont think of that, i told my son if they kill me i will die doing the right thing and a good thing and thats what God wants. I pray and walk in his will on a daily basis. You can always check me and my background, i am a child of the King and i am doing what “thus says the Lord”. You and Ms. Tiny both keep doing what you do. I love your positive messages when you guys go back and forth. I do allow my 13 year old granddaughter to look at your show because of the positiveness. Thank you and God Bless You. If anyone is reading and can get this to Ms. Toya or Ms. Tiny please do. This is not a joke and I am not a joke nor am i crazy, non of that.

Ms. Smith

Have you ever had a problem, that you had to keep to your self but you trying bt it hurts lyk hell, its a fizzit, i despies, bring mirser to life. Wishing you had some one to trust in, so you can let it all out, yo can say thats the reason you been fillin so down, bt when you reach out help , you fine that its no one bt yourself. Just life want be this tough for ever,only one thing makes it better. Dont hold it in side,no such thing is cry. When your heart is on the line. Its the day you cry.Toya i know where you coming from, cause i been treated like that before. Just keep your head high, cause one day they would realize that they had some thing good in their life, My friend always ask me wats wrong when i get treated lyk that. So dnt feel lyk u alone with that problem. You is lyk my best friend. I love you lyk my friend. Never for get you are a strong blackwomen and you is MRS. indepenent. Keep your head up for your daughter gurl

Have you ever had a problem, that you had to keep to your self but you trying bt it hurts lyk hell, its a fizzit, i despies, bring mirser to life. Wishing you had some one to trust in, so you can let it all out, yo can say thats the reason you been fillin so down, bt when you reach out help , you fine that its no one bt yourself. Just no life want be this tough for ever,only one thing makes it better. Dont hold it in side,no such thing is cry. When your heart is on the line. Its the day you cry.Toya i know where you coming from, cause i been treated like that before. Just keep your head high, cause one day they would realize that they had some thing good in their life, My friend always ask me wats wrong when i get treated lyk that. So dnt feel lyk u alone with that problem. You is lyk my best friend. I love you lyk my friend. Never for get you are a strong blackwomen and you is MRS. indepenent. Keep your head up for your daughter gurl. God loves you and he will never leave you. He looks down from heaven similin, cause his daughter stayin strong for her self and him. sooo i am prying for you always and forever. Jesus will work it out, if you let him. sooo dnt you worrie and you dnt have to cry cause god is willin and able to get it down and you are very lucky to have a friend lyk tiny and for some old reasons she cant be there you. Learn how to be your own best friend. When you fellin good about some thing and no ones around soo u can tell it sit down and tell your self all about it and tell god cause he is always listenin to you. <3

man when i saw toya cryinq on the show honestly it brouqht me to tears. it is really emotional for someone to see someone very close to them leaving out of their lifes again and i honestly knows what shes going through because it has happened to me.

Toya you are going thru the same thing lots of us go thru,”LET THEM GO” You have to be strong for your daughter and your little brother,give them your time and love,they want to be something in life. Let your mother come to you,dont go looking for her, you’re only hurting yourself,just because they’re your blood relatives does’nt mean there’re your family. Do like I did, hold on to your good friends and family,that means everybody that LOVE”S YOU and respects you, let the others go,thats a part of growing up, Im a single parent and I have GOD in my life,no i dont go to church every sunday, but I have strong faith, my son is 17 years old, my advise for you and your kid brother,Do not let him Date, he’s 17 in the 9th and my son is 17 in the 10th,he loves and want a girl real bad but he listen to me,I tell and I show him why there is so many black men with out Education,but they have a Degree in sex,my son lived in Atlanta with is mother sexing it up at 12,then he had to move with me in Houston,he cries because he know if I was a sorry ass dad he would’ve had a child by now or in jail,Keep the girls out his face,he dont need that right now,if he was your sister would you let some groupy be in her face and she’s 17 in the 9th,put T.I. in his life.LOVE you and TINY take care.

I love you guys show it is a realistic view of life and its ups and downs with your own goals, family, and men. I like it because it does not just focus on money and how rich you are. Good job! Im a fan!

Toya you have a good heart and there won’t be anything you can’t accomplish….Tiny I love watching the relationship between you and your parents. You all are a very loving and close family.

family sometimes don’t mean you any good,they be the main one’s to run over you.TRUST ME ON THIS ONE they really gonna need you one day (maybe real soon) and you gonna how to stop givin in to them, #$?$ if they wanna struggle let they ass struggle. FOCUS ON YOU GIRL AND YO REGINAE.

I think Toya is a bright young lady who is wanting more than anyting else to have her family together. It may seem as though she has it all but all the money will never make up for lost love. Her big bro is an idiot, I mean she was hooking him up with all the right people to boost his music career. I understand you can’t make people do what they don’t want but sooner or later you have to be tired of doing bad and recognize a good thing when it’s in your face. To Toya keep your head up chick and know that it makes me happy to see a young black woman doing her thing and more concerned about her family than chasing a thugg nicca down. Live it up chicka!!!

Toya- It means so much to me that you and Tiny are so brave to let the world see some of your struggles from within the inside and outside… Personally i’m going thru some similar emotions and thoughts about Family and wanting them to be better in there Life, but have expierienced being left alone to survive out here and watch the ones I love hurt me the most and in the worst way.
I have come to the conclusion that our Happiness is the reason we allow ourself to be in a situation to put others before ourselves. Knowing your help to another brings the joy you have within. The one thing that we can’t change is who are family will be at the end of the day, we somtimes want to give up but we try to change because change can be good.
Im a 24 yr old young lady trying to better myself and find my way to being a woman. I took on the resposibilty of my younger brother @ 19 and been helping an Aunt with her addictions and I know I wanna give up everyday. Everyday I search for the reason why and everyday I don’t find it.
I’m not a spirtual person but I prey God will help us all find our way!
Stay looking good gurl! You and Tiny are such inspirations to young gurls everywhere… we really are watching everything! lol

Toya everything will be allright sometimes i think about how i grew up and it bothers me because alcohol and drugs came before the family dont take this issue with you for the rest of your life stay strong and just pray

In life we sometime want every one and thing to feel the way we do, we want everyone to be on the same page as one, however it takes up diff people to make up the world. You have a daughter to look after and mold, the only thing in life you have to focus on is raising your baby girl., no matter were life takes you or showes you its all ready written its what we get from it and do with what we learn from it., You are doing well for your self and thats a wonderful thing., stay strong and know when its time for the family to pull together through the strengh of GOD all shall over come..,

Hi Toya, I was brought to tears when I saw u cry, but thats just part of loving family. I have been hurt by my family members in a way you would not even imagine. I also felt misused and hurt,but i got over it i will never forget what they did to me. Toya you are a beautiful, strong independent individual and anyone that comes in contact with you are very lucky to have you in their life. I’m 32 years old and I feel like you are my big sister and inspiration. keep your’e head up stay strong and u will forever be blessed. p.s. i would like to get the opportunity to meet you we have so much in common. Love ya, Tasha

THATS WHATS UP………

sometimes you have to let the people you love go and move on with your life and still love them with all your heart where ever they may be, just pray and everything will be aright. i really love watching you and tiny because yall real.

toya itz alrite trust me god will make away cuz rite now im still goin through alot myself but im still liven and doin just fine but yea gurl everything iz gonna be good itz gonna be ok just remember god got yo back at all times just remember hez proud of u and im proud of u becuz u came so far from wayne to having ur on reality show o and tell tiny im proud of her and tip 2 yall r all veeeeeerrrryyy strong ppl and keep doin good and a very special shout out to da omg gurlz haaaallllaaa

Toya Im Srry For Wat Happen. Its All Goin To Be Allrite GoD Is With Yu. Wen I Saw It I Cried And I Dnt Lyk To see Tht, Keep Ya Head Up Gurrrl.. Luv The OMG GurlZ…!

hi are you ok I love you andso byby!!!!!

Toya I would understand why you woud feel so hurt.I would be hurt as well if my family had done something like that to me, but i feel we should relize that it’s not always possiable to hold on to things that dont want tobe held onto.So, Toya it’s gonna be okay, because if God brought you this far he’ll take even farther.<3

I can’t tell you how to feel because I didn’t have to deal with drugs but i had to deal with my mother being overweight and the kids use to make fun of her and it use to bother me. I know drug is something totally different from drugs but at the same time we are women in our own worlds. You can’t save someone who don’t want it. You have enough to worry about without that. The good thing is you have Tiny and she is going to through her issues and it seems like she keeps everything inside and I know with issues like that in your family it has to be hard. The best thing in the world is to have a good girlfriend to confide in. You can’t trust a lot of people and to have that one that you can tell anything to, it’s amazing. Gurl keep your head up and make sure you take care of you and your 2 babies. I know Rudy is your brother but you are the true meaning of a good mother. There are so many things you didn’t have to do in regards to your family but you are the one that want them to know the other side of life. Keep your blessings and share them with the people who wants it. I love the show and the bond that you two have . Happy Mother’s Day to the both of you.

Toya I can see where ur coming fom because you and ur mom was just getting closer on the count of that she was on them drugs. Toya u no u got a good friend to count and you also have some else special in ur heart, u have REGINAE and u have a wonderful friend Tiny. Toya dn’t down urself keep ur head up,because its gonna be okkkayy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because I see it if you and ur daughter maded this far yall have some years to go. If r mama want to go back to New Orlkeans then free her soul move on you have to focus on your life style and deal with your daughter with her father going to jail

so sorry girl………………………. i really feel for you but your mommy don’t want your help. and your brother don’t care about you. so don’t try to help them. fucus on you your daughter and ruddy that’s it.

gurl, i feel ya on that..but ya know wut gotta keep doin u, no matter wut, hard times r tha worst but its how u handle em n how u get thru it that makes u, that much stronger,and wiser…we all know lifes a struggle..but when u hold ur own thats wut counts tha most..keep ur head up gurl…..

Toya u can only do so much it is time to take care of you nad your child and just pray for what ever going in your life god will make it all right i know he will.

OWW I FEEL HURT 2 BECAUSE THATS HOW PEOPLE IN MY FAMILY WERE AND JUST KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Toya Its Gone Be Ohkay .

i lve iz show

I THINK IT IS SAD BUT HER MOM DON’T WANT TO BE WITH HER. HER MOM LOVE AND IT MAKE ME WANT TO CRY. YOU ARE UGLY TINY ARE NOT REAL.

YOU CAN FACE YOUR MOM AND SAID DO YOU WANT TO STAY ARE NOT. I FEEL SORRY FOR HER.

TOYA HAS DONE HER BEST BY HER FAMILY AND HERSELF, SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND JUST PRAY THAT GOD WILL BRING EVERYBODY TO FULL CIRCLE NO MATTER WHAT THE PROBLEMS MAY BE. STOP AIRING ALL YALLS BUSINESS AND TRUST THE GOOD LORD FOR THE OUT COME. AIRING YALLS BUSINESS IS JUST GONNA MAKE IT WORSE.

I HOPE THEY ALL GET THE BLESSINGS GOD HAS BESTOWED UPON THEM ALL. GOD IS SO GOOD ALL THE TIME AND ALL THE TIME GOD IS GOOD TOWARDS US ALL. GOD BLESS BET FOR THERE HARD WORK IN THE BUSINESS FOR THIRTY YEARS. AMEN TO THAT.

I LIKE TINY AND TOYAS NEW SHOW I THINK THEY GIVE US A GOOD LOOK FOR YOUNG BLACK WOMEN EVERY WHERE.

TOYA I AM YOUR BIGGEST FAN YOU ARE GOING THRU ALOT ONE TIME I FELT THE SAME WAY BUT IF THEY DONT WANT TO GET HELP SO WHY SHOULD YOU HELP HER EVEN NO THAT YOUR MOTHER. TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER AND YOU TRIED AND TRIED TO HELP HER BUT IT WASN’T WORKING SO NOW YOU ARE FOCUSING ON YOUR SELF BUT IF SHE WILLING TO COME BACK AND STAY YOU HELP HER BUT NOW FOCUS ON YOUR DAUGHTER, YOUR BROTHER, AND YOURSELF

i luz yall toyaand tiny , tiny let them hoes hate toya its gonna be alright

BIG FAN OF YALL TOYA ITS GONNA BE OK

Toya, they (brother & mother) will be back, one way or another. Do be prepared for you might have to go through. Pray for your home,and you can’t go wrong. GONE THROUGH THIS

toya you have to focus on you and your baby and if they want to treat you like that then let it slid off you back and keep doing what you want to but you can onlyy help people that want it!!

IN LIFE YOU JUST HAVE TOO KEEP PUSHING THERE IS ALWAYS A BLESSING IN RVERY STORM

IN LIFE YOU JUST HAVE TOO KEEP PUSHING THERE IS ALWAYS A BLESSING IN EVERY STORM GOD WILL NEVER PUT MORE ON YOU THAN YOU CAN HANDLE

(girl it is okay your mamma just dont want help in her life right now.IT IS GOING TO BE OKAY****!!!!!$$$$$$)

You are a beautiful woman, with a beautiful heart, Never give up on your family and but at the same time continue to be strong for yourself and for your brother and daughter, remember there are two other people in your life right now who loves you and need you more than ever. Stay strong my lady and keep the Lord in your heart and he will bless you. Joy comes in the morning, troubles don’t last always. God Bless you Beautiful.

TOYA I LOVE YOUR SHOW.AND GO WILL SEE YOU THROUGH lOVE ALWAYS A FAN FROM ST.KITTS

TOYA I LOVE YOUR SHOW.AND GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH lOVE ALWAYS A FAN FROM ST.KITTS

hey toya i know how fell cause im going to the samething with my family but it that we might have it a bite different cause my family dont rally talk to me and me my father dont talk cause he is on drugs too but i will forgive if he comes around i dont really now my father but im happy that u know your mother no matter what happen that day all u need to know is that she love u and she know u love her to happy mothers day toya

babe girl focus on u and ur babe. the only reason ur fam came to atl in the first place is ur money and connection. u cant make someone get help who doesnt want it. its obvious that she doesnt want it. ur brother cant rap. they used u and thats the truth boo. keep ur fath in god and thats all u need. pray on it. there is another tomorrow. the sun will rise again if they r in the same house with u or not. so keep it movin. and wen u gon open up some kind of shop.

Toya, no matter what u do, ALwAYS keep GOD FIRST and FOREMOST, He knows what u are going thru and He will not forsake U. U are truly a beautiful woman and U have a good heart. Stay strong for U, Reginae, and Rudy. Take it one day at a time. Reginae needs U to be strong for her as she is dealing with issues also with her fathers situation. Dont give up on your family because they will come around but it will be on their own time, and when they do U being the WOMAN that you are will be there for them. Give it time. Focus on U. As long as U have U together everything else will fall into place. Dont lose U in the midst of it all. I pray that U find all the happiness and love U need. Keep your head up.

Toya let this be a lesson learned you mother don’t what you have to offer her.we can lead a horse to water but we can’t make them drink she need to make up on mind as to what she want for self and you focus on you and your daughter. I’m happy for you and I hope you don’t waste time trying to make them stay let them go they will come back one day.

toya its goin 2 b ok do worry i would jest leave it along because i think if walter didnt wanted ur mother 2 change because he would not have took her bakk. I do understand that thats yall mother but 2 me he jest dont care….

Who are the young women commenting on this topic? I feel sad that most of you can’t spell or use proper grammar. Please take school more seriously.

@TJ… Thank you! I was thinking the same thing!

Toya has done a lot for her and the family, but that dose not mean that they will do the same for her thou. I know that she wanted her mother to get help now but you just gotten let her come to you unstead you going to her then maybe she will get the help that she needs and get her life on track. I beleive that Toya’s mother will get the help she need and wants. JUST BELEIVE IN HER AND TELL HER TO BELEIVE IN HERSELVE… and everything will be GOOD.

Im sure you touched alot of people with this moment and hit home for alot. You are strong and just like Tiny said you still have Rudy. And your mother and brother are where they want to be. You are grown and so are they… Life is about making decisions….they have made theirs and you have made yours. Focus on your daughter and brother…you always got them. And Rudy will appreciate everything in the end which will make you know it was all worth it. Would i would say is let your mother and brother know they just can use you at thier leisure.

That is so sad i went throw that before i now how she feel

toya its ok i realy like your show a lot’ and eventually your mom will get tired of runnig backwards and forth to the life she wants to live and she will then come to reality and most importantly dont blame yourself for what is happening you caint help anybody untill you helo yourself

toya it goin be all good and i love your show
so munch and just keep trying to to help your mom
but if she dont want help than u just have to do u
in take care your daughter and your sexy brother
all yeah i know you may not agree with me but it will be nice if you and wayne get back with each orther

Toya I Love Yuh…Yuh Do a lot for yo family n now look wht dey did to yuh dey gt wht dey wnted n wnt bac wnt dey came from…..i will feel da same way dha yuh is feelin……havin to tell yo daughter wht happen……..i am yo biggest fan man….

Toya, you got a rotten family that really need a jesus intervention. they are just like most people on earth who choose to be bad. Toya want to have a good life. you should let them go before they destroy what was given to you. i would say more, but this is being just…..nice.

Toya. Let go and let God. I’ve been in similar situations with family members and they just didn’t or don’t want any better for themselves. We can pray for them, hope for the best, but we can never change them. Only God can. All the best dear.

Toya you are a strong woman. You and Tiny. The fact that you tried multiple times to get your family in order is great but you have to live life for Toya. Find out what makes Toya happy. You and Tiny are beautiful women. I look up to and have the upmost respect for both of yall. God will get you through this.

I felt so bad & also felt to pain yu had me gettin emotional cuz I kno how it feels 2 b n dat same position bt if GOD wnt dem dere dey will
b bck keep yo head up

Hey Toya girl hang in there just pray everyday and things will work out for you and your daughter.

I know you are a busy….. person Toya and you have yo family & friends but sometime it nice to meet people that have been were you been and know how it feel 4 their mother not 2 be their . I’m a fan of yours cuz i can see my self having a nice talk with you about life and how our life is almost the same . I’m mother of 3 boys 9,6,4 and we stay in milwaukee WI. FOR right now we will be moving that way very soon me and my hubby and our boys. I know I’m just a fan but if you could give a blessing 2 someone that look up to you and feel yo pain please let it be me. hope to here from you one day some soon but if not good luck to you and yours.love starla

i no how you fell just becuse you mary a fames rap star it do not mean nothing you can stop acking like that and t can go on some were with the duck on your side she no that you not doing a nathing but just talling you the bad staff that you should do but you do not do it so if i was you i will stop lising to her she look like a duck in e way haller at ypu girl tt all day

Toya I truly understand where you are coming from with your family. I admire you so much for raising your daughter differently then you were raised. ( You broke the cycle) All you can give your mom and brother is love, and prayer. All things will work out through the goodness of or Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. You can’t change them you have to pray that God changes you (which he has) and through your change everything around you will change. Hats off to you girl because you are truly a blessing to your brother Rudy and your daughter. They came in your life for a season now you have to journey with God. You and your family are in my prayers and will always be. Keep up the good work.

Toya a few words of encouragement! Let go & Let God! He will see you thru it all! Be bless luv.

Hi Toya, I love the show and my comment is simply this, don’t allow your family to destroy your spirit. I think you were correct when you said they used you because they did. They did exactly what you said got what you could give them and then rolled out. You deserve more respect I know that for sure! As women we always use our hearts but at times it is better to observe individuals before providing them with anything. I think the next time you should make them prove themselves to you before you do anything for them materialistically speaking. I think you have a beautiful heart and your family took advantage of that. So my suggestion is to move forward with your daughter and brother who needs you. Don’t allow no one, whether it be family or whomever to take and take and take. Because that leaves you with the feeling of being used. Be blessed to Toya and don’t look back!

Toya, you’re a strong woman that has been through a lot. I know that’s your family but you can’t live for them. They’re not ready for change, even with your money to give them the things they never had, they are still use to what they know, the hood and the drugs. Leave them to GOD!! You have a beautiful daughter and handsome little brother to look after. Ladies, please take an English course, I have to agree the grammar is bad!!

HI TOYA ALL IAM GOING TO SAY TO SOME IT UP IS YOU CANT CHANGE FOLKS THAT DONT KNOW OR WANT BETTER FOR THEIR SELF…YOU GOT LIVE YOUR LIFE…GREAT SHOW TELLTINY I SAID HEY BABE (IN HER VOICE LOL)

toya its so sad wht yur mom and brother did to yu but yu just got to let them go, let them be, they will come to reality as to yur mom continue to pray for her. move on with yur life yu have your daughter to think about.

you have to believe in your self and in god!

Hello Toya, i know things may not be the way you want them to be right now, but hold on that change will come..u see family is the most important thing in our lives but when a person just dont wanna be helped theres really no hope but Oneday your family will see that you’ve only tried to help and bless them so i say keep the faith,remain calm because God is going to turn ur tears into tears of joy instead of sorrow so be blessed and be encouraged. Ms. Katrina

toya you okay continued to pray for your mom and brother GODS gonna take care of you &nd i was like omqeee you and tiny are fit to be friends cause she has a beautiful personality and you have a biq heart yall both have a wonderful friendship &nd i luv yall and that successful show keep up the fabolous work much luv inez a fan from a distance

Stay prayerful and focus on yourself and your child also Rudy they need you now! Its all a learning process and somethings are not meant for us to fix but we just need to pray and surrender it all to God! You tried and now its time to move forward… All is well… Yeah its your mom and who don’t want to help a love one especially your mom but she has to want it and if she come back try again don’t give up just keep moving…

toya you okay continued to pray for your mom and brother GODS gonna take care of you &nd i was like omqeee you and tiny are fit to be friends cause she has a beautiful personality and you have a biq heart yall both have a wonderful friendship &nd i luv yall and that successful show keep up the fabolous work much luv inez a fan from a distance!

Toya….Keisha had the kick Frankie and Neffe to the curb so continue doing you

You are a strong and inspirational woman! What you are trying to do for your family is a blessing. I grew up with both my parents on drugs and I can tell you, ONLY your mom can decide when she’s ready to be clean. Dont stress yourself, that day will come. It took me 21 years but I can finally say that my mom is clean! Pray for her, be there for her, but dont enable her!! Thanks for giving me somebody to look up to Toya, you are truly a blessing.

JUST BE STRONG ABOUT IT KEEP PRAYING N SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LET PEOPLE FOUND OUT THE HARD WAY AND YOU WILL BE KNOWN FOR WAT U TRIED TO SAY IN THE PAST BUT YOU ARE A STRONG AND PRETTY BLACK WOMAN WHO DESERVES BETTER AND I HOPE YOU CONTINUE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE ONE AND ONCE AGAIN IM DREA….AND TELL YOUR DAUGHTER I SAID HI & KEEP HER HEAD UP AND KEEP DOING WHAT SHE DOING TO HOLD IT DOWN FOR WAYAN…. **FREE WAYAN**

I thought it was sad 2 see her cry but, it’s life and you have 2 move on. You can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do. I think you are blessed and you have a great life, so just continue to live it and be happy.

-Kela

toya baby you cant help people if dey dont want to be help just remember god got ur back and so do i, imma keep prayin fo u and everthing is going to be ok i love u and god loves u more ya digg

hey toya wats up just let it go u have did enough let her make her choises soon she will realize where she wants ta be

It’s okay Toya to cry for yourself and for your family. Just from watching the show I could tell that it wouldn’t be long before they both broke your heart. You are such a beautiful person inside and out and it shows on the show. Your family dissappointed you because you saw something in them that they aren’t willing to see in themselves right now and that’s okay. You keep on working on you because you’re worth it. Just take that big heart of your off your sleeve and put it back in it’s rightful place.

U are a very beautiful person inside and out but u must realize u can’t change ppl ur mother doesn’t want wat u want ur brother doesn’t want wat u want focus on ur daughter and lil brother some ppl are lost souls until they want help u can’t help them u are to young to endure so much pain give it to god he will fix the things in ur life that need fixing the most trust and believe that

Good job! Seems like you read my comment a few weeks ago because I told you the exact words. Good for you!

Toya just keep praying and give it to god he is the only one can fix it for u baby.Your mother and brother have to go to god for themselves and he will delivery them from all of that worldly world stuff.Just be the mother to your daugther cause she really need you,and the big sister for your brother Rudy, and remember keep God first in your everyday life and he will surely be a blessing in your life.Just don’t give up on your mother cause that is your only mother baby,just give that situation to God and he will fix it for you.Remember stay strong my love.

Sometimes when you walk along its bests for you so many people get hurt because they try to depend on there family but you toya have to look with in your self to find strength hope faith and don’t let nobody stop you from doing you so many people fail because they look for love and all the wrong places but god is on your side be blessed

I just want to tell you that Life is Crazy. We always see what things were like, holding on to the good times and thats all it is. When its PAIN that comes about You have to LET GO and LET GOD. He will Catch Every tear. Smile

Toya when you give you have to give unconditionally i am not saying you had a condition it seems like you were just hopeful that what you had to give would be enough to undo what your mom and brother were lacking but all that can help them is God and even then its only if they allow him to. So, don’t feel bad or sad you didi what you could and unless they allow God to change them on the inside he wont force himself on them and they will remain the same in the mind, no matter how many blessings he sends there way. You did a good thing, it wasnt a waist of time and only time will tell.

don’t cry you too pretty to cry………

I JUST LOVE THE SHOW

hi toya you know you lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink it just keep a smile on your face for your child and your brother which by the way is looking GOOD lol and just keep them in your prayers
))) byee got to go now

DON’T CRY THINGS WILL GET BETTER YHU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE 2 LIVE 4 YHU AND YOUR PRINCESS IF IT IS MEANT 2 BE IT WILL BE DON’T FORCE THEM INTO STAYING THERE LET THEM GO THEY WILL REALIZE THEY NEED YHU MORE THEN ANYTHING JUST WIPE YOUR EYES AND SMILE THE SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN TRUST ME KEEP THE FAITH GOD WON’T PUT MORE ON YHU THAN YHU CAN BEAR!!!!